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How to overcome irrational fears: Cover of Am I a Coward?: Find Out Which Fears Are Telling the Truth by Diego Segura
I Want to Start a Business but I'm a Coward.

How to overcome irrational fears: Am I a Coward?.

Find Out Which Fears Are Telling the Truth.

Are you looking for help with “how to overcome irrational fears”? Then this page is a good place to start. Am I a Coward?: Find Out Which Fears Are Telling the Truth is one of the titles of I Want to Start a Business but I'm a Coward, a book by Diego Segura. First, read a short passage from it. After that, try the exercise below, and finally choose where to read or listen.

How to overcome irrational fears: a passage from the book.

Every fear you found came true. Look at which fears you wrote down. People often put the fears they were most sure of into words and keep the vaguer ones in their heads. Search again with softer words like "what if" and "nervous." If they still all came true, that's genuine information about your judgement, and chapter 7 will help you use it.

From chapter 4: Nobody checked your fear's record

Once both are recorded, put the phone down for ten minutes. Then score both takes against your five points. Better still, send both files to someone you trust without telling them which is which, and ask that person to score both takes too. Don't be surprised if their numbers are kinder than yours. In a 2017 study at the University of California, Los Angeles, Joyce Cheng, Michelle Craske and Andrea Niles found that people with a fear of public speaking rated their own speeches lower, compared with outside observers, than people without that fear did. Your own ears may be the harshest judge you will ever face.

From chapter 8: Do not calm down

That is how the book looks at “how to overcome irrational fears”: one idea at a time, with a step you can take right away. Of course, this is only one idea from the book. So, if this passage speaks to you, the full chapter goes further, and it ends with an exercise you can do the same evening.

Check your fear in one minute.

Pick the fear that stops you, then answer three quick questions. The result tells you whether this fear is giving you facts or just noise.

The fear that stops me
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If it happened, could you recover within two years?
Could you test it this month without spending much?

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What else is inside I Want to Start a Business but I'm a Coward.

In short, the book has 11 chapters, and each one ends with a practical exercise. Therefore, you can read it in order, or you can go straight to the part about “how to overcome irrational fears”.

  1. The safer road
  2. Afraid people see different odds
  3. Unknown is not unlikely
  4. Nobody checked your fear's record
  5. The worst case is written in a law you have never read
  6. What happened to the people it happened to
  7. When the coward is right
  8. Do not calm down
  9. The price of the safe choice
  10. Courage does not delete the fear
  11. Beginning while afraid

How to overcome irrational fears: where to read it.

Finally, you can get Am I a Coward?: Find Out Which Fears Are Telling the Truth in the stores below. Because every title of this book shares the same text, you can simply pick the one you like best. Also, the book is available in 19 languages.